THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES

#1.Words of Affirmation
#2.Gifts
#3.Acts of Services
#4.Quality Time
#5.Physical Touch
 I started to read such books cause I wanted to know about human people relationships with one another.

It was a concerned as some of my friends, be it ladies and guys stand by me for many years. Maybe those who had great patient stand by me quietly like acts of services.

I appreciated them as eg Derrick who always teaches me about computer stuffs to clear and organised the stuffs in there. I were still not that a strong user in computer technology in arts. Always, if I encountered projects in my certificates taking, I would seek guidances.The person could actually be there to try to come up of some tips of the ideas.We would go for competitions in arts field though we didn't make it to the winning sessions. Quality time was being spent.Though I might not develop romantic feelings if it was an opposite genders, It builds a strong friendship.

From this particular person, I realised to form a team of four for activities.It had never occurred to me I could arrange people to come together to attend some activites.Subesequently, I do bring out my courage and guts out. It just come naturally I planned for some friends to go for trips like bird park and singing sessions.The I continued to try to be a team dynamics to do souveniers gifts doing. Also, it really allowed one another to learn from each others.Then I continued to wish to form a team to do a set up of booth for souveniers and handicrafts. I don't even know if the results seem yet successful.

This is an act of service and quality time spend that now I recognize it. Always if you hope the person be by side your for accompanyments.

Some times, When I dont wish romantic feelings to enter into my life, it just come and goes like a wind breeze.Probably it would be some crush and admirations of the person, be it the same genders or an opposite genders.

I felt an act of services and time spent to try out new activites would be a healthy relationships.Though gifts are symbols for a strong friendships bonds, like a memorial item to significes that a team of three close friends had shared the times together. Some people couldn't see the languages I want to convey but felt theirs affirmation were another forms of body languages. 

Thats the reasons I need to have time to cultivate myself. There were times when I were too close with the same genders,be it Yu zhu, tian shi, I would think that I might have romantic feelings for that person. Maybe not, it could be a sisterly strong friendships.I were confused about my self-identity.

People asked to stop behaving this way so I would not do anything silly.My words to say must be appropriate in seeking people help. When comes to activites, I got a tendency to ask people to join. Probably, we really have to know not any will have the time to spare for oneself. Each individual is unique. Some are working on their career paths, while some are still studying, while some are still cultivating their hobbies skills. Or for those who had a mind to set up a family to buy a house or even to settle down, finances come to the most crucial parts.
I am cultivating myself to read more these days, from books, or even from Ebooks. Probably it could let me understand my roots well. I were always in the Buddhism Philosophy of thinking