I talked to some of my sports club friend. I learned something. Everything is about FOCUS. I had a short conversation with the person.It wasn't easy for the person to travel back and forth from Singapore. The person spirit was strong, just like towards his passion for product design and also his passion for his religions views. I wouldn't comment on any side I were in. I could say just that to have friends that have same topics of conversations was good.His inspirations came when he was focused and devoted to his own religions.When I heard his phrases, I really wished to know more about typography and packaging design too. Actions = Results :)
Oh Boy.
Sunrises with bright hopes
Sun sets with radiant colours
Shadows of Silohuttes
Sinking into deep thoughts
A short story had ended with a closing that no one bothers about no happy endings or even a story that caught you unprepared.Thats how I should see things weren't that as simple as you thought.
I heard stories about people you encountered, that people imparted some knowledge or lessons for you to learn. The next moment, the person just disappeared in your life.It would be better that way.I don't understand at all too. Were each our encounters that way? Couldn't each partings be a memorable one and not ended up in bitterness? Do people remember things deep in their hearts, only there were a strong impart or strong blow to them.I hope to avoid these kind of situations in future.
It is another world that I seem don't understand but somehow understand. It is about compromising, satisfaction.
Another chapter of story to begin. Seeking for the people out there for companionship, common goals or to fill my life with more colours, surprises or even disappointments.The human of wonderous that one could do.
How would the happenings events filled one's and another life for each others to take away and to learn too.
It is everyday happening events.I weren't capable of holding the person, be it my best friend or a close friend. The only thing I need to learnt is to let go of things or person fast. it is Just like a split second or a magic wand that tap in the sky.You would feel not a thing or move into another planet.I really felt haven't done a capable part as a student, an employee, a daughter or even a sweetheart, a planner, an example to the juniors.Don't someone feel my existances meant something deeply or an important impact to them.I wish to know how my worth is to them. Yeah, I learnt a silly hard way. I wished not that to happen anymore. I felt I got to be more capable and develop out my strongest qualities out. I were quite forgettful at times. who knows I might not know the person the next day. That would be great? Then I would not need to remember the unpleasant moments. Please guide me to the desires destinations I could be at.This coming week had some happening events. I were tired, not sure if I should take up. It would be family day, collections of gifts, passing items or any gifts you hope to give.
There were also entertainment like game booths, singing sessions. Even there were many activites up, I would just hope to really complete my assignments at hand.I kept delaying.
I need to read on my own. I read several topics.This month was tight and tough for my planning. I felt weary in decisions makings.I weren't satisfied. I had no ideas what would come next week.I meant some decisions to make on selections of topics.
I try to find some stuffs to read randomly. I felt I missed out some of the parenting skills that I should have learnt from my seniors. Those parenting skills I could passed down to the juniors.
I am handling one of my closest kin. I found another perfectionist that I were trying to handle.He was like too organised where I felt that certain invinsible rules had to be follow again.
Ten Tips on Effective Parentings
1. Believe in the goodness each individual: Show me how you can be more gentle with your brother.
2. Dont pass on that negatively, overcome ill effects of words.
3. Be firm, kind and consistent: Teach the person about maintaining the limits he or she can do before implying more for the person.
4. Show appreciation for positive behaviour : Encouraged them once they complete an action.
5. Honour your child's impulse, then set the limit. Honour a person impulse to be one to be alone. "I know you didn't want him to take your toy, but I need you to be safe." Lets' be gentle with our friends. This is the phrase I hope my friends would treat me too. I met too tough people and rough people.I just felt that I were touched by their actions. However, I were being "violated" in their rough actions. I hope they were out there to amuse me but I didn't see it that way.
6. Use "when, then" statements instead of "do it, or else" statements. "When you put your books away, then we can play more games."
7. Use postive statements instead of "don't statements.
"Put your plates on the tableswhen you're done," as you put your dishes on the counter.
8. Learn about your child's individual temperament.
9. Establish values that suit your family.
10. Learn more about children and parenting. Have I followed the orders and instructions closely?
Faith into Action: "Neither orders, authority nor threats can unite a family.
IT IS LOVE, HARMONY AND CONSIDERATION THAT BINDS ITS MEMBERS TO ONE ANOTHER. In a family, there is no particular need for a hero. What is needed is a strong father who can protect everyone and a mother who is impartial, fair and kind."
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