Two sides of life (Wedding & the one that left to be remembered)

I guessed I went back to the usual places of sharings. Everyone is preparing their own notes for sharings. If one had good fortune, all medical bills could be covered. I hope to have the genuine faith to understand deeply rooted.
I guess everything boiled down if one to give and learn from one another.Stories passed down. I mean there were stories about a couple who migrate from Vietnam to Austraila. They actually saved up to set up a business.When they earned enough incomes, they decided to travel.I guess travelling had been on my mind recently.I meant that the wife suddenly had a heart attack and couldn't actually continue with her china trip with the husband. Stories that the husband wished to finish her wish by bringing her ashes everywhere she went.This story teaches us to actually to treasure people that were near you. How much did people care these days? When always people who found that they were always right in behaviours? Who could say or mention right or wrong? Whatever the behaviours, each have their own explainations and reasons.To hide, to deny, to ignore, to reject, up to individual.
All about earning enough, or comparing the living standards, the education levels? At least if one had certain abilities, it would mean to survive better.Probably the oldest generations came to their latest stage would mention. The youngest generations wouldn't think that too.
For the last three years of life, Stories of people who came to the latest stages,then their family would accept the beliefs that one believed in.Of all the stories of others, what would mine turned up to be? The fragile of the body to resist to.
The sharings of how a couple should behaved in

1. To love one another
2. To respect one another
3. To avoid if conflicts arised
4. To give some encouragements to achieve one's goals and desires
5. To give in
6. To understand and forgive, Can forgiveness be forgotten? Can one's stand the stuffs that you dislike but try to resolve the disputes and work things out? How much of one's understandings and capacity that you believed the person?
7. To help each others?To build each others in the careers? Then one became like secretary, assistant,anything one hoped to be.
8. I suddenly bacame interested in Zhou En Lai.I just heard about him of his personal life that he built with his wife.
9. http://www.spartacus.schoolnet.co.uk/COLDenlai.htm  
10. http://www.shanyou.org.sg/en/our-services/youth-development-service.html

Is it that awkward to attend a group sessions? I guess it was so too.I wanted to read up too. I hope to read up of the histories of the certain characteristics of people. I guess to understand the traits of each people hold.